"Don't say retarded, they prefer 'little people' now..."
Since this is a rather long discussion, a semi-political one at that, I'mma quick-reply.
There are those that will more than likely not contribute to society. Volunteering at a center for the
blind/multi-handicapped, I noticed a lot of special equipment. For these individuals, I do believe we must give them -something-, as they are human beings, and perhaps create a separate program to allow them to at least integrate into society, or otherwise not feel like a lifeless soul trapped inside a empty skin-husk. While they can't do much, at least they can feel human.
Then there's the ones who actually need it. To put it simply, plenty of autistic and downs-syndrome patients grow to contribute to society, even if their destiny is to become a bagger in the local grocery store. We need those, anyways.
The most common kid in Special Ed? In my elementary school, it was a few of the bullies, and some of the awkward-don't-talk-to-those-kids-they-pick-their-noses crowd. This is a useless program, and kids do not need to be enrolled into this. Tell elementary schools to quit throwing holiday parties, hard test parties, random parties and indoor recess and let's actually teach these kids. Unfortunately there's a lot of kids who have a tough time at home, or at least are not able to receive help from parents, but instead of taking it out on the students, perhaps the teacher could do their job and ensure the students are able to do or learn, or whip them in shape even if it's takes cutting summer break. (wtb yard stick and a paddle, considering Catholic school Nuns, as well! pst)
But then, elementary school was a terrible, grueling hellhole, and these are kids, so of course they're going to have a tough time learning/conforming into super education soldiers (consider the other school systems across the sea). But I may be leading into a different subject, along the lines of teachers becoming secondary parents and schools becoming military facilities armed with books.
My experience? Special Ed kids were usually normal, aside from that they get different assignments, gloat about it, and read Berenstain Bears in the fourth and fifth grade while we normal kids got real books and had to do real work. As I said, a lot of them are bullies, so maybe the solution is actually cutting the "add/adhd kids" and "problem kids" from these programs and focus those who need them or otherwise use them. This should help, at least. This is considering that out in the real world they won't be handed a Playschool register, or a Plaschool foldable kitchen in a McDonalds theme. Let them suffer like the rest of us. Those destined to work at McDonalds or to wash my car for me will never remove themselves through that rut.