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Tried to schedule for 10pm +1 today with opponent, they answered with "-5 sure", i waited for 40 minutes and turns out they expected me to play on my monday 4 in the morning...
calling activity on my opponent. Scheduled for 30 mins ago and they never showed. I did message them I was on and haven't heard back. Got other tours to play for and have plans after those.