Putting aside the other stuff since I can understand those (& lord knows forum echo chambers contribute a lot, yes)....My issue with the Scorbunny thing is that empathy at the basic level of "not downplaying your friend's concerns about their ability or self-worth" isn't really a level of learning a character at Goh's depicted age should have to learn. I definitely get growing pains with a new team member joining and Goh being a bit of a novice trainer, but I think there were easier-to-connect-with ways to start that conflict than something like Scorbunny losing a battle for lack of skills, wanting to better itself, and Goh just saying "nah you're fine not learning anything new" as the place to grow from.
He's 10, I've absolutely seen kids take the wrong idea and run with it (& adults have similar problems) and get into worse arguments over lesser things, much less conflicts like these. I've gotten into dumber, heated arguments over lesser things. And sadly, sometimes those continue into middle and high school.
The initial issue was seeing scorbunny overexert himself after a Darmanitan with little result, and Goh basically reassuring him that he still has his speed and footwork to rely on, so its okay if he can't use ember. He gave it his best shot and it didn't work, and that was okay; he even literally says "its okay to take part in battles that work for you". He's trying to flip the situation around (helped by his own knowledge of battles that he's been thinking about, as a way to play into those strengths) to make Scorbunny feel better. Which is an actual lesson adults try to teach children anyway. And one handled with less grace by adults, for that matter....
And then, also like a child, he gets in a childish argument when things get heated after Scorbunny refuses to listen during a battle, lose and then runs off in a huff before Ash uses his experience to point out what Goh was missing because of his assumption blinders and they immediately go to make right.
And the moment Goh sees something that has potential from Scorbunny's attempts, he tries to set it right and find compromise. Can't use traditional ember, but using Scorbunny's feet and speed he's able to turn that into a proto-pyro ball.
Like I just rewatched the episode to refresh myself on this, its...fine? Just another for the pile of "pokemon miscommunication" episodes. Most of the cast gets one to varying degrees and honestly Goh's is pretty light on the scale.
e: Honestly I think we're just fundamentally getting different things from these characters and their moments so I think I'm just going to drop it. It's an argument thats either going to fizzle out with no one happy or get heated with no one happy and i'd rather the former; I got my answer why people hate him even if i dont agree, it's fine.
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